18 November 1977
Our wedding party was held at the home of my in-laws on their farm.
A marquee was pitched in the garden.
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Many family members offered a helping hand,
including Flappies (floppy ears).
and youngest brother Hein-Phillip.
Marlene's younger sister was in charge of preparing the dancing area.
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A whole ox was barbequed and would be served,
after many hours of careful cooking by hired experts,
as the main dish.
A fleet of cars had to be spotlessly clean for the occasion.
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Tradition has it that on the day,
the groom should not see the bride before they meet in church.
So she was getting ready at a friend's home.
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Arriving at the church, accompanied by her father.
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We were both Christians,
who believed that marraige is an institution designed by God.
So the ceremony took place in the same church
were my in-laws had been worshipping for many years.
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Then we left the church as Mr. and Ms. Hattingh, with the
guests throwing streamers (instead of rice or confetti) at us.
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My grandma joined us as we left the church.
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Then a photo session had to be performed.
My Dad, Mom, Marlene, and my sister Evein
with my youngest brother, Hein, in front.
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Marlene's parents on the left,
and mine on the right.
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With her younger sister, Nettie.
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The bride, with the Dads.
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The bride, with the Moms.
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Then it was off to the farm, for the festivities.
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The guests were seated, the ox cooked,
and the party was ready to begin.
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Later that evening, cousins and uncles decorated the car
in which we would depart on our honeymoon.
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After cleaning up the next day,
farm lobourers who assisted with the function were treated to a meal.
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